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SELF-IMAGE AND CONFIDENCE

How good would it feel to wake up each day knowing you will make a great impression - whatever you have to do and whoever you have to meet?

Your appearance, self image and self concept has a direct and powerful effect on how you are seen, the impact you make, and the successes you achieve in business and in your private life...every day! When we achieve a look and a feeling which is completely right for us something amazing happens. It gives us energy, we feel great, and our spirits lift.  We look younger, healthier, and brighter. Confidence increases, others see us in a different way …… and then we start to achieve the things we’ve always wanted to achieve. We show our inner self. Your ability to create the right impression through your behaviour, communication AND your appearance all contributes to your success in business and your personal life.

Whether we like it or not, the way others respond to us is based a great deal on our appearance. Not only the way we have our hair, the clothes we wear and even how we smell, but the way we behave and the confidence to be ourselves all influence the impressions we create. People’s perceptions of you are formed in seconds, your reputation, credibility and impact all depend on the image you project, inside and out.

This is not about a materialistic image, based on money, belongings, or 'designer' clothes and doesn’t have to cost the earth. Neither is it just about your attractiveness, how 'good looking' you are. I am talking about a positive self image, being comfortable and confident about who you are and the way you look, however that is.

I am not a colour analyst or 'trained' style consultant but as a former model and founder of my own Model agency some years ago, I have a good sense of style, how to look good and the importance of looking in the mirror and liking what we see on the outside, because this will influence our inside feelings. I also know from these experiences that our confidence can be knocked very easily if it is only based on an outside image and we are not secure about who we are inside. Negative thoughts lead us to stop focusing on the bits we like, emphasising these and loving our uniqueness.

Maybe, it is your poor self-image, or self-concept that is leading to lack of confidence and self esteem which will effect everything else you are trying to achieve, maybe you feel you are happy with 'you' but can not seem to get the 'look' to reflect this… then contact me because once you feel good on the inside…….. we can work together to finish the job with the outside, imagine it….a whole new you.

How you look, your self-image and confidence with that, tells the world how you expect to be treated!
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An individual's self concept is the core of his or her personality. It affects every aspect of human behaviour; the ability to learn, the capacity to grow and change. A strong, positive self-image is the best possible preparation for success in life. Dr Joyce Brothers
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